a little sad today

[Mimi1]

today's the 2 year anniversary of my mom's death. i was fine until i remembered today is january 4th. at this time i was just arriving in california, where my folks lived. i had been stuck in denver, colorado in a blizzard for the entire day. being stuck wasn't the worst. it was knowing i'd never give my mom a hug again. my dad had alzheimers disease and was at their house with a nurse caring for him. he kept asking for his angel - my mom - and for me. why wasn't i there he kept asking. my dad die 12 days later on january 16th. ar least i was with him. i'll always feel empty that i never got to say good-bye to mom. they say time heals all wounds - i hope so.

[Sonnie]

I do believe time makes losses easier to cope with. Hugs to you Donna :hug:

[yomamma]

Donna :hug: :hug: :hug:
I know how you feel, I never got to say a proper goodbye to my dad. I was in the west and couldn't afford to fly over. Time heals but I think we still hurt, it is apart of life.:hug: :hug: :hug:

[Heather]

:hug:

[mel35]

:hug: :hug: :hug: to you Donna:comfort:

[Mad Old Cow]

:hug: love to you Donna, my dad died 4years ago 3rd of January the day before my Bday, her was in hospital for 9 days before he died i slept 8 of those nights by his bed i was there when he left so i did get to say goodbye
but honestly my heart still feels like is is being torn apart, i had 4 months of greif councilling afterwards which may have helped i'm not sure but my dad will always walk beside me feel our love & support for you Donna because we are all here for you:hug: :hug: :hug:

[Di Nana]

That is so sad to lose both your parents withen such a short space of each other but at least they are together must of been sad not to of been there to give her your last hug to, but I'm sure she is looking down on you and giving you a big spiritual hug. I don't think time heals, think it just gets less painful to live with you are entitled to feel sad :hug:

[Teeka]

:hug:

[sandydee]

:hug: :hug: to you Donna

[michelle_72]

What a tough time for you. I think the best way to deal with it is to honour their memory and remember them for who they were and have no regrets. I hope you manage to find a way to deal with it all.

[CarolineBreck]

:hug: I agree...honor who your mother was and think about everything she contributed to your life and others. :hug:

[jens]

Donna, I know I am a little late with this post, but I hope you are feeling bit better! :hug: :hug: