View Full Version : When was the last time u cried and why?
kimba
22-10-2007, 06:30 PM
I have been a bit of an emotional time bomb over the last week, crying at the silliest things sometimes:yes:Anyway today I cried after reading a story about a 32 year old male who died of breast cancer.I mean he is my age and apparantly had fought and won against the disease before. Then not long after that hubby put on the last hour of the midday movie while he was eating his lunch and I watched a bit and absolutely bawled:shh:It was the Sins of the Father or similiar.About the KKK bombing of a church in America that killed 4 girls.I obviously did not watch it all but I was bawling and saying to hubby "how can people be so cruel and racist?" I just do not get how people can wake up and go "yep today I am going to kill these people cause I do not like this about them" Just really upsetting:(
Anyway enuff of my ramblings-When was the last time u cried and why?Was it happy or sad tears?
Mad Old Cow
22-10-2007, 07:00 PM
thismorning Kimba, i was thinking about my parents & how i really miss them, but to be honest i cry almost everyday for the same reason
sandydee
22-10-2007, 07:10 PM
Happy tears at my Mums 70 th as it was the first time the family had all been together for years:yes:and the last sad tears were when we put our old fella EJ to sleep last October.But I often cry over sad stories in Thats Life and Take5:yes:
redrobyn
22-10-2007, 07:12 PM
I,m a sook I cry every time I watch t.v. and see something about animals or children or those medical shows.
Naomi
22-10-2007, 07:48 PM
This week, when I was reading about that poor, poor little boy in the suitcase. It just came on top of a couple of other awful stories involving children and tipped me over the edge. Sad/angry tears. I don't have the capacity to read/hear stuff like that without reacting anymore.
Cried happy tears five months ago when Sophia was born. One of the most exhilarating experiences of my life.
Teeka
22-10-2007, 08:22 PM
too much lately to pin point just one occasion
kimba
22-10-2007, 08:49 PM
too much lately to pin point just one occasion
Hope u r ok Cassie:comfort:
Cherie
22-10-2007, 08:49 PM
Almost everyday. ;( :crying: .......ok now:coffee:
kimba
22-10-2007, 08:52 PM
Almost everyday. ;( :crying: .......ok now:coffee:
R we being funny now:D
Cherie
22-10-2007, 09:09 PM
Not this time, I do cry a lot. But I never let things get me down for long. :yes:
Kekka
22-10-2007, 09:17 PM
I sook at sad movies! :crying:
Mad Old Cow
22-10-2007, 09:21 PM
even my hubby sooks at sad movies
miss kiki
23-10-2007, 12:29 AM
friday morning at 2 a.m. talking to my sister about our abortions and what not. they were sad, but they were happy too, if that makes sense. more sad though than anything.
Rachel
23-10-2007, 02:14 AM
last week when I saw a car accident.. always reminds me of when I came across an accident involving my brother..
kezabelle
23-10-2007, 07:29 AM
I'm emotional to kimba - but that song doesn't make me cry anymore at least! Now it's things like Brother Bear....
kimba
23-10-2007, 07:43 AM
I'm emotional to kimba - but that song doesn't make me cry anymore at least! Now it's things like Brother Bear....
Sis u r making me feel sooooo much less pathetic at the momentLMAODear Mr PresidentLMAO
kezabelle
23-10-2007, 03:57 PM
It's a very sad song.... :D Can't believ how ridiculously hormonal I am this time around! And the dreams I'm having.... don't get me started!
kimba
23-10-2007, 03:59 PM
And the dreams I'm having.... don't get me started!
Oooooh any juicy ones??LMAOLMAOLMAO
kezabelle
24-10-2007, 08:08 AM
No - horrible ones. Last night I dreamt friends came to visit and then discovered they had worms! I wormed the hubby and the kids, but couldn't worm bub or me so was running around stressing about it. Very bizarre LMAO That's one of the more sane ones...
Mad Old Cow
24-10-2007, 08:31 AM
Kez they sound like the type of dreams i have on a regular basis lol
kimba
24-10-2007, 09:18 AM
No - horrible ones. Last night I dreamt friends came to visit and then discovered they had worms! I wormed the hubby and the kids, but couldn't worm bub or me so was running around stressing about it. Very bizarre LMAO That's one of the more sane ones...
Maybe this baby is ..........possessedLMAORather interesting tho:)
lucyloo
24-10-2007, 05:44 PM
My son nearly chopped off his finger, so we spent a couple of days in hospital. After we come home, and another couple of days went by, I let loose and couldn't stop crying one night in bed. felt better after releasing all those pent up tears!!!
sandydee
24-10-2007, 06:55 PM
today,read the story about the guy who died from breast cancer.
I cried last night when I didnt win lotto:brow:
kimba
24-10-2007, 08:30 PM
today,read the story about the guy who died from breast cancer.
Same as what I started the thread over Sandy!!It was so so sad
La Toriana
24-10-2007, 09:49 PM
often....
just watching my daughter... and thinking... wishing.... wondering how things may have been if my others were here with her
Elizabeth
sandydee
25-10-2007, 07:19 AM
Same as what I started the thread over Sandy!!It was so so sad
:yes:I know Kimba,it was so bloody sad and the poor darling kiddies :uhno:
lisa2
26-10-2007, 08:51 AM
Two weeks ago.. I dont cry much. My 4 year old son sobbed when we gave our kitten away, he's allergic to cats, but we didnt know. He was desperate for a kitten and as he watched it playing, and his little face lit up..we werent sure if he was allergic at this point so we tried to keep him away a bit, but he was rubbing his eyes. He was laughing and crying, so we let him pat it and he was overjoyed and loved i,t but his poor face was swelling up. We couldnt keep it and he cried for an hour, it was heartbreaking, he will never forgive me..that made me cry.
mummy1987
26-10-2007, 09:42 PM
i was just watchin mike, bree and fitzy's new show with all the vids from the net and it was so funny i cried in some of them lol!
Heather
26-10-2007, 11:36 PM
This morning.....I was tired, sore and everything just got too much.
This morning.....I was tired, sore and everything just got too much.
Hope you are feeling better today H!:hug::comfort:
Manda
27-10-2007, 12:24 PM
Yes H hope you feeling better!
I cry just everyday atm.
Heather
27-10-2007, 02:11 PM
Thanks Jen and Manda....I don't try to hold up any more....just causes more problems in the end.
Manda....are you still in a lot of pain?
Manda
27-10-2007, 04:11 PM
H- i have a bit more movement and the pain is a little less, even tho its still there, it is goodb that its not as bad.
miss kiki
28-10-2007, 08:46 AM
cried today..really had an explosive fight with my sister. i'm so sensitive, so i cry over everything.
Rachel
29-10-2007, 12:45 AM
I am the same Kiki although I am getting a tiny bit better with age! I hope all is OK now.
miss kiki
29-10-2007, 02:09 AM
could be better, although i think everything is alright now..thanks rach! :)
dragonfly97
29-10-2007, 03:44 AM
this last thursday my dh brought our dd of 19 months to my work and told me she was bleeding i run to car and dd has blood all over her hand i run back in and tell boss i am leaving to take her to hospital. she broke a fish hook off in her finger and a small piece was out and dr. numbed it and pushed it through her finger it is cut pretty good but no stiches i cried for her. sorry about the book i wrote.
Rachel
29-10-2007, 03:47 AM
Hi Dragonfly :waves: I could just imagine, my DD is close to that age and I know I would cry too :yes: I hope your little girls hand is feeling better :)
miss kiki
29-10-2007, 04:08 AM
so sorry to hear that dragonfly! hope she's alright now! :)
dragonfly97
30-10-2007, 07:28 AM
she is doing alittle better it is cut pretty bad but no stiches we just have to keep it covered and hope it heals fast thanks ladies she cries alittle when she sees it
Manda
30-10-2007, 08:56 AM
Dragonfly- I hope it heals quickly for her!
I cried last night when watching surf patrol (one of the life savers had dies in a car crash and his parents came over from japan to be apart of the memorial put on by the life savers) ......Think my hormones might have been turned up last night.
Heather
30-10-2007, 10:15 AM
Dragon...of course you are going to cry when your little one was hurt....very hard not to.
Manda....I don't think it was the hormones...I had tears streaming down my cheeks too.
sandydee
30-10-2007, 05:33 PM
today :yes:regarding a client:yes:
mummyof3babes
30-10-2007, 05:52 PM
Last night. My uncle hanged himself 3 weeks ago, and my 10 year old cousin (his son) is doing very badly, very worried about him.
Stormy
30-10-2007, 06:07 PM
Today because I kicked my toe on a full box of bottles that someone had left in the corridor and then to add insult to injury, some idiot stood on top of my foot because they didn't notice me standing behind the curtain x(
miss kiki
31-10-2007, 01:17 AM
sorry to hear that mummy..all the best for him and your family.
this morning..not sure why..i just woke up, went downstairs, DF was awake, he gave me a hug, and i cried a bit. there was only like 5 tears, he didn't even notice..weird.
lovelyy
01-11-2007, 10:16 AM
Today because I kicked my toe on a full box of bottles that someone had left in the corridor and then to add insult to injury, some idiot stood on top of my foot because they didn't notice me standing behind the curtain x(
Ouch! :comfort: I kicked my toe into a raised concrete on the street and it started bleeding really bad. Now its all bruised and bloody under my toe nail. I cried like a baby
sandydee
01-11-2007, 09:15 PM
today :yes:saying goodbye to a client who is going into nursing home :yes:I had been caring for him for 2 days a week for the last 6 months.They bought me a lovely gift and we shed tears together
mummyof3babes
02-11-2007, 09:30 AM
Well i just turned 17 barely 2 weeks ago and the friday before i found out my mom has breast cancer, she is fine though..luckily they found out it was only the cells and they put her on meds for the next 5yrs or so that will wipe them out. But also im having a hard time in my relationship, ive been with this amazing guy for almost 9 months now and we plan to move in together once i turn 18 (hes 22). Well in the beginning of the relationship everything was fine but then we started hanging out with each other more then out own friends needless to say, i no longer have any. I know i want to be with him for along time and especially move in but i dont want to miss out on all the fun in high school...what should i do?
Sorry to hear about your mum Tina, I'm glad everything is okay. Something similar just happened with my ex-MIL. There was a lump on her ovaries and we had to wait six weeks for test results and to see if it grew, on 29th Oct she had to go back in and thank-god it's nothing to worry about, it's disintegrating.
With the b'friend issue I think you should definitely not move in together if your having any doubts at all, you need to be 110% sure that's what you want to do. I really wouldn't worry about it too much now anyway, there's still a year to go before your even considering moving in with him and so many things can change in that time, just have fun and see what happens in another year. Get out make some friends and enjoy yourself.
Good luck and welcome to AF.
Laura.
miss kiki
02-11-2007, 10:41 AM
sorry to hear that about your mom tina..i hope everything turns out ok with her. i think you're still young and that depends on if you want to be that serious with him or not..but then again i'm young and engaged already, and moved in with my fiancee a month after we made it official. i don't hang out with many people, but then again i have a sister close to my age and my SIL, so i like catching up with them. and of course a couple friends that i haven't lost, but i don't think the amount of friends really matters. it's quality, not quantity.
Rachel
02-11-2007, 01:38 PM
Well i just turned 17 barely 2 weeks ago and the friday before i found out my mom has breast cancer, she is fine though..luckily they found out it was only the cells and they put her on meds for the next 5yrs or so that will wipe them out. But also im having a hard time in my relationship, ive been with this amazing guy for almost 9 months now and we plan to move in together once i turn 18 (hes 22). Well in the beginning of the relationship everything was fine but then we started hanging out with each other more then out own friends needless to say, i no longer have any. I know i want to be with him for along time and especially move in but i dont want to miss out on all the fun in high school...what should i do?
Tina- I am really sorry about your mom :hug: It is great that she will be fine though :yes:
When I was 17 I ended up in a very similar situation to you and I lost my friends from highschool as a result of spending all my time with my boyfriend and putting him first all the time :yes: I had 4 great years with that guy but we ended up on different paths which led me to my current partner of 8 years... While I am very happy with my partner and our daughter my biggest regret was not making time for my highschool friends.. I had 2 best friends during highschool and it has been 12 years since I last saw them and I still think of them today... Try to dedicate at least 1 night a week to your friends and have that as a girls night!! :D
P.S. you might want to start a new thread about your relationship in the relationships forum and you will be sure to get plenty of advice :)
sandydee
02-11-2007, 07:44 PM
:waves:Tina and welcome to AFW:)
happy to hear your Mum is going to be ok:hug:
About your rship ,dont rush in to anything you are only young enjoy the time,make friends and always make time for them :yes:you can have both.The years go by quick enough :yes:enjoy your freedom and young years:)I remember when I was 15 wishing I was 18:yes:and now I am nearly 40:uhno:cant believe the years have gone sooooo quickly:yes:so ENJOY it I say:D
Heather
03-11-2007, 07:17 AM
Laura.....there is nothing I can add, I'm sure your friends have all said it for me :hug:...it must be such a hard and confusing time for your family.
Tina....welcome, why don't you post again in the relationships section. We have so many wise, I don't need to say wonderful, we all know that, Ladies here who can offer you assistance and solace.
carnation54
09-11-2007, 08:17 AM
I was watching a preview for "Darfur Now" last night .. and it really choked me up.
miss kiki
09-11-2007, 08:22 AM
the other night before bed i was thinking bad thoughts.
Mad Old Cow
09-11-2007, 11:02 AM
gee i just realised i hav'nt cried for at least 5 days i thinks thats the first time i can say that in at least 4 years,
lisa2
10-11-2007, 05:21 PM
I cried today, Ive been feeling a bit depressed lately, and my husband was quite mean to me.:blink: We went shopping, and misunderstood eachother, about where to meet up. I looked for him for ages and then sat down with a coffee.:D He blamed me saying that I thought, 'stuff him', then he complained that I deliberately staged the whole thing cause I was angry,:blink: AND didnt want to buy him a coffee!:uhno: Really...how petty and rediiculous..:uhno:well it was just a little too much for me and I cried..right at the coffee shop the tears welled up.:shh:
miss kiki
11-11-2007, 05:11 PM
aww, sorry to hear that lisa! i cried because i found out some pretty sad news when i was at my dads house. it was yesterday..will post about it in a different thread.
sandydee
11-11-2007, 08:55 PM
got teary today ,over an emotional song:hehe:
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