SAHM's,lets start a chat thread

[leelee]

hey guess what im banned from here,not by anyone important its just my hubby. he even said to me its him or the comp......oh i guess i will miss him:hehe:
i cant live without my afw fix:berry::nana::tree::bdance:

[Naomi]

LOL Leelee, we used to have arguments about computer time ... in the end we fixed it by getting another computer so we both have one LMAO

[Leigh]

Normally I would get in a little trouble being up that late..but he was up just as late racing for pinks and stealing little kiddies cars on PS3 LMAO I think he is hooked :hehe:

[leelee]

awwww our DH's(hehe) where would we be without having a LMAO:hehe: at them.

[Truth]

i was going to post something here but ill paste in afn instead

[miss kiki]

haha, it's been like that now with me and my DF..you're always on the computer he tells me, but then again he's always on too! i think it's time for us to get our own computers also!

[Truth]

*** lol imagine that

[leelee]

well yesterdays was so busy 2 parties in on day,lucky the adult one was in the morning and then one with drinks was night time:hehe:
now today my baby cousin is 21 we are off to her party soon,my babies are the youngest so as per usual they will steal the show:D
happy sunday everyone:x

[Truth]

thanks lee im going to try and finish my reasearch papers so that i can graduate with the rest of my class i have pulled out all my research papers next to to go through it all what a task..eeeerrrr i have printed all my photos now i ahve to put it all together cheers all

[miss kiki]

i also have a project to do in one of my classes truth..i need to get pamphlets/brochures for all this medical stuff! so i have to travel in order to do it..thank goodness my mom works at a hospital! :hehe:

[Truth]

well let pray that we both get them done
im need lots of prayers
afw is always side tracking me its an addiction that needs controling
cheers

[tianakaesha]

Oooh. Other SAHMs! :) Mind if I jump straight in?

I've got a 2 year old girl :)

[miss kiki]

not at all! glad to have you jump in! :)

[Rachel]

Good Morning Kiki :waves:

[miss kiki]

morning rach! was thinking of you last night, lol. :) how's everything?

[leelee]

best of luck with that kiki hun:x
well hows everything else with everyone else.
today i found out that a few women(want to call them worse names atm though) are nothing but mean bitter backstabbing tough to pick on a 3 year old and i thought these chicks were my good friends and nice ppl well sadly i was wrong:blink: i had a huge reality check today though so i guess it may even be a good thing:brow:

[Rachel]

It's all good here kiki! Just so crazy busy here at the moment!
Lee I read those playgroup threads! What BS!! If only real life could be as nice as AFW where everyone is open, honest and friendly eh!

[miss kiki]

could be better here..what would you ladies do if someone you really trusted told you something that you believed and then you only find out later that they did the complete opposite?! yes, that's what i'm going through right now..i feel horrible and that person should feel tons worse, but i feel like they're not..UGH. it's going to be a long day! proud though that even though i was literally shaking last night, i didn't dare have a smoke. going on my 3rd day..
leelee-sounds like that is a good thing..now you know how they are and i'd stay away from them if they are like that and like to cause problems. :hug:

haha. rach..you're so right!

[leelee]

:yes::yes::yes:rachel true that hun.
afw rocks:y:
kiki love that is what i am doing they can all rot and bitch and just keep me out of it as its just soooooooooooooooooo highschool, ez is dealing with simular kiki hun maybe she can offer you advice,well done in not smoking hun thats awesome :clap::y::x

[Rachel]

I don't know kiki.. depends what it was.. What has happenned hun?

[miss kiki]

ugh, i don't even want to talk about it..kids are home and i know if i start typing i'll start crying, lol..and they'll be picked up in ten minutes, which seems like forever right now. just had a horrible night.
i just feel like it's not working with me and DF..i guess i'm just really scared right now that it's not..we got in an arguement last night and he promised me something and then he sort of turned it around on me when i found out that he broke the promise. really didn't make me feel good. BUT times have been pretty bad and we stuck it through, you know?! i just don't want it to get so bad like how it was in my other relationships to the point where i was literally hurting myself by being with those assholes i was with..and i feel in a way i'm doing the same now..but i know i don't want to leave. i'm a mess. i just want to go to sleep..

[Rachel]

Oh OK.. yeah broken promises suck... Well I hope that you guys sort things out soon. Maybe concentrate on cooking him a nice dinner and be really sweet and then try and talk to him about it... Sometimes a lot more can be worked out when you are happy and relaxed than when upset and trying to speak over each other IYKWIM :) Good luck and if you need to get it out you can always email me :hug:

[miss kiki]

i guess i just feel that if he cared enough he wouldn't break it..you know? i know rach..i really wish i had a calling card and your number last night, believe me! lol. :) thanks love!

[grammyjo]

Miss Kiki life is stressful around the holidays plus the problems our country is going through right now. Take a breath & work on your class project. One step at a time.

[Rachel]

Sometimes I wish I lived around the corner from you so I could give you a hug :) It can't be easy being in your situation but I think that all in all you are handling things really well :hug: and grammyjo is right.. one step at a time and a big deep breath whenever things really get to you :hug:

[miss kiki]

you're right grammyjo. thanks..i'll definitely take a step back..or two..or three and catch my breath a little bit.
rach-that's so sweet! :) hard when you can't rely on family all the time..it's not easy, but i love the situation i'm in. i just don't like some of the stuff i have to deal with! :hehe:

[Rachel]

I am the same. I moved an hour and a half drive from my family and friends when Darcie was 1 month old and I have had no support here and Darron works long hours so I am pretty alone and it is hard to make friends up here as we go back down to our hometown almost every weekend because we have a birthday or a wedding or we have been invited to do something down there with our friends and/or family.. So it does get stressful and sometimes I think it would be easier to just leave Darron and go back home but I know that then I would be miserable because I would miss him and basically I love him but the situation we are in is difficult sometimes...

[grammyjo]

Rachel & Miss Kiki, close your eyes & give yourselves a big hug. That's me you feel hugging you back.
Merry Christmas.

[miss kiki]

rach-the sad thing is is that my family lives right in town and i still feel like i'm so far away..just knowing that i can't call because they're sleeping and i don't want to wake them up-even though they tell me i can call at whatever hours..i tried calling my sister and she was asleep and didn't even hear the phone. sometimes you just need someone there to talk to..BUT at least i have the computer! :hehe:
grammyjo-thanks for the hug. :)

[grammyjo]

You are welcome anytime.

[Rachel]

Rachel & Miss Kiki, close your eyes & give yourselves a big hug. That's me you feel hugging you back.
Merry Christmas.
Thanks Grammy :) I did that and it made me feel better and as a bonus- you made me smile :hug:

[grammyjo]

Rachel you made my day.

[Rachel]

You really are very sweet Grammy :) Thankyou

[grammyjo]

Your welcome.

[leelee]

howdy all hows things??:P
Well this morning i have decided i am going to live in the middle of a deserted island no older kiddies,no hubby and no cats or dogs with me,i will of course take my lil chicks as they sleep through the night, i am soooooooo sleepy today my sleep was broken many times last night 1stly my hubby woke me up by coming to bed at 1am after playing his wii (silly man then whinged to me that he has to be up at 5 am wtf i didnt tie him to his couch and force him to play :brow:) anyway i just got back to sleep when my dogs both started howling so i had to get up and check what they were doing, then popped back into bed and first born son got home blind drunk from partying, it was funny the quieter he tried to be the more noise he ended up making it was 3 am at this stage, feel back asleep then the home phone kept ringing but no one would speak when i answered it so i had to unplug it after the 5th time:blink: just got back to sleep when my cat decided she was going to catch a moth so jumping all over the place, walls couchs and all very silly but cute.then thought time to sleep again when second born son came home it was 4 am now,he had a sore lip as he got it pierced last sunday so he had to leave his friends and come home wtf dont they have panadol.then had a 1/2 hour sleep and the friggin alarm went off and i had to stuff around getting my very useless hubby ready for work. My lil chicks slept through the whole things and are still asleep even now0:)
Today my poor lil bubba girl has her needles so its a sad day today,she is having them at 9 am so i cant even really get back to sleep now just in case i dont wake up and get ready on time.

[Truth]

Let me begin with big hugs to you all:hug::hug::hug::hug: so much dramas ive missed. did you miss me??:blink:
Everything happens for a reason sometimes things seem so bad ...but.... soon enough you find out that infact they are blessings... be the best person you can be and always be true to yourself ,treat others the way you want to be treated and then trust thats its all good "what goes around comes around" that is comfort.
Ive been busy with dramas of my own and very busy with my reggio folio and my teacher validation.
still not finished stuff for uni although im getting there deadline in the 21/12/07 so girls pray for me to finish ...
best of luck with everything guys
and smiles and hugs to ya
cheers truth;);)

[miss kiki]

leelee-wow, what a night! i can't even imagine that! but then again, i have wondered-when do you sleep?! :hehe: i remember a few years ago sneaking into my mom's place and making more noise too. :hehe: those were the days! you should have scared him! LMAO

i'll say a prayer for you truth! :)

[kerry rowe]

my hubby is jealous of the computer to ha ha

[miss kiki]

well, now that he got me a laptop for xmas, i REALLY need to be careful on how much time i spend on it! :hehe: