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Di Nana
13-03-2008, 05:26 PM
Did you ever do mean things to your siblings when growing up
My brother was here in the weekend at his Crib, which makes him my holiday neighbour,
And he bought up once again how when he was just a little five year old and had not long been at school and how at lunch times he used to come up to me to peel his orange, seemingly he says I used to do this and then throw it with great gusto down the playing field and make him run for it , :yes: Now I of coarse do not remember this cruel activity of mine (must have blocked it out) wish he bloody had :P, but any way he is now 44yrs and competes in triathlons, marathons and does extremely well, I really do think he has me to thank for his athletic skills :D One must be cruel to be kind
and I have heaps of nasty stories that my two older sisters did to me :headh:




Supa
13-03-2008, 05:38 PM
yep lots of things & my sister like your brother doesnt seem to forget them ut she does the ones she did tome!

lucyloo
13-03-2008, 08:01 PM
Ohhh yes, and I was in the middle, so my older brother used to torment me, and then I passed that on to my younger sister.... poor little sissy....:hehe:

Heather
13-03-2008, 08:52 PM
I homestly can't remember any that I did to my middle brother.....but I'm sure I did.
I can certainly remember some horrible things he did to me.

miss kiki
14-03-2008, 12:09 AM
lucyloo, that's how it is in my family. my brothe being the eldest, my sister the middle, and me the youngest. :yes: and of course we were brutal to one another. i gave my sister a black eye once..it was a very long road trip from canada back to new jersey, we were squished in the car for hours, and we started to piss one another off. so we went into a kicking fight and oops, i got her eye! she one time chucked a can of pepsi at me and it hit my head pretty hard..gosh, those were the days! :hehe:

Rachel
14-03-2008, 01:36 AM
I don't really remember much of that but my sister still thinks that the saddest day of her life was when she was about 9 and I didn't let her go in to town on the bus with my friends and I- as I had been promising for a week beforehand.. apparently I had made her my slave all week long to get this reward that I never made good on... oops :hehe: I'm glad I was the oldest child in my family!

zen
14-03-2008, 08:42 AM
i am the oldest, and had to look after my little brothers a lot.. they only remember good things thankfully, cept for one time i must have lost my temper being forever teased about being on crutches one time, and i just lifted one crutch and hit one bro with it... not too hard tho! was more a surprise than a hurt he says.. i know i used to give them the burnt biscuits and say they were chocolate when i was learning how to cook! lol... but they always got to lick the bowls and beaters... and i used to make them do my chores first, then allow them to listen to their favourite records in my room as a reward.. i suppose that wasn't really horrible... they were the cutest little boys! :) they used to bring their friends over to meet me all the time..

Alexa
14-03-2008, 09:24 AM
Pulling hair, shouting matches, my younger sister going into my room and trying stuff on, usual sister stuff, most of the time we got on pretty good. We also have a half brother that was born when I was 17 and we give him heaps now...just general teasing about girls and that! :hehe:

Susan E
14-03-2008, 12:44 PM
My sister will tell you that I stabbed her hand with the carving fork ... But I didn't really. I was drying the dishes and she tried to hit me and got the carving fork instead :D 0:)
We used to fight all the time. She is only 14 months younger than me. I used to call her names and then run cos she was fatter than me and couldn't run as fast.
We were both pretty horrible to each other altho we are fine now for about 2 days! Living in 2 different countries helps ;)
Di Nana - I know what part of NZ you are now. :yes: Only South Islanders ( mostly Otago and Southland) use word Crib for their holiday home. :yes: We grew up in Mosgiel.

romana
14-03-2008, 01:37 PM
We would argue a lot but never got physical. Now we're the best of friends!

zen
14-03-2008, 03:37 PM
i think that's truly the best thing about my three brothers, apart from my husband, they are my best friends, and they always will be.. i remember when my guy and i were engaged, i warned him that he wasn't only gaining a wife, he was gaining 3 brothers as well.. :)

Barbara
14-03-2008, 04:59 PM
When I was young - I did it all the time :O (are you shocked - I know, it's so not me LOL 0:))

My older sister was the favourite and could never do any wrong so I had to get her back :hmmf: (but could only do it when we were not at home so I wouldn't get into trouble for it :hehe:)

It was weird though because if anyone else picked on her or said horrible things, I was the first one there to protect and defend for her.

kimba
14-03-2008, 09:56 PM
You will have to wait for Kez to reply to this one:yes: She was a cow at times.Only here and there(we got on ok most times) but sometimes:headh:

Mad Old Cow
14-03-2008, 10:54 PM
LMAO Old Di i really think your brother owes you big time LMAO
my brother was & is a bastard i remember washing his head when he was about 8 & i used a small vegimite glass & filled it with boiling water from the kettle off the fuel stove & poured it over his head, it took the skin clean off his scalp i got a belting from mum though but i think the boiling water hurt him more then my belting

Barbara
15-03-2008, 07:41 AM
Oh Di - that is evil :O

Kekka
15-03-2008, 08:25 AM
I have some things in my childhood simply too gross to share! :D LMAO

Di Nana
15-03-2008, 12:19 PM
LMAO Old Di i really think your brother owes you big time LMAO
my brother was & is a bastard i remember washing his head when he was about 8 & i used a small vegimite glass & filled it with boiling water from the kettle off the fuel stove & poured it over his head, it took the skin clean off his scalp i got a belting from mum though but i think the boiling water hurt him more then my belting

Holy shit Di :headh: no wonder he is a bastard

Rach I know how your younger sister felt, my two older sisters did that to me all the time, they were always sneaking off with there friends when I wasnt looking so I wouldn't follow them, sometimes they said we were playing hide and seek they would make me hide then piss off with there mates and I would still be sitting in my hiding place three hours later
I did push one sister out of my tree hut ones and she was left dangling from a branch by her undies for all the neighbours to see :jump: but I did rush home to get mum, but by then the elastic in her pants gave up and she wasn't to far behind me, and not looking to happy ;)

Mad Old Cow
15-03-2008, 03:59 PM
well my Bitch of a sis tried to smother me once. i was asleep & woke up to a pillow over my face & her screaming she would kill me & i was about 15, the bitch wore one of my new dresses & so i told dad & he just asked her not to do it again.

Telori
15-03-2008, 07:51 PM
My brother's and sisters were all way older than me (four of them already had kids of their own before I was born) my closest brother is ten years older and he used to tease me but nothing major though.

July
15-03-2008, 11:01 PM
I only have one sister - she's 7 years older than me. Honestly, when I was little we barely knew each other, then she left home and we still barely knew each other. Even now, while we get along fine we rarely visit or call each other.

I once scribbled in pen all over her favourite dolls face. I wanted that doll and not the one I had because hers had boobs! :boob: LMAO I even remember their names - hers was Carol and mine was Arlene.

The worst thing I remember her doing to me is once she was going to town with her friends and Mum made her take me along. She must have been about 16 - I would have been 9. I don't know why MUm made her take me - maybe she was sick or going somewhere. Anyway, my sister did NOT want to take me, but had to - so proceeded to make me regret it. We got off the bus at the bottom of town and walked all the way to the other end where we took ages gping into shops and standing around talking (well they did) and then we walked all the way back to the bottom of town again before getting on a bus. :( It took all day. I had never walked so far or been so bored and ignored in all my young life!

Cherie
16-03-2008, 12:38 AM
There was four of us, and I can't remember anything too annoying. The boys were together a lot as they were close in age, and my sis and I never fought ever.:)