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Night Crawler
17-06-2008, 02:35 PM
Sigh.......Guess how Keiko celebrated Father's Day? Spending more money we don't have!!!! Grrrrrr......

So after we trot out to hubbys parents and visit his Dad for a bit, it occurs to me that I should go spend time with mine. We had stopped by for a quick one earlier but could not both stay as Larry will not spend any time there with good reason. Nothing to do with my parents, but my loser, junkie, leach of a brother that never left home...but that's another story. Anyway, when by earlier we had left Keiko to visit as I didn't want to leave her alone so soon after surgery as it would have meant putting the radar dish back on. We had planned the night before to see both Dad's and celebrate Larry's "father's day" by going to the park and feeding squirrels. It's one of his favourite things to do and I swear all the local schools know him on sight. Heck they might even have a church in his name! You should see how they come right up and crawl all over him.

Head shake, back to original story. So I leave him at his parents, head back to visit mine and pick up Keiko. Got the usual happy greeting, took her out on the lawn for pee. Nothing unusual appeared to happen, but then we are all standing in their driveway talking when I look down and notice a small spot of blood on the pavement. Oh, I think, her drain hole has been wiggled open again from vigorous wagging. But no, it's all closed up.

Okay then! We have one large and two small dogs out with us, so we each pick our own and start checking paws. Sure enough, it's Keiko. OF COURSE IT'S KEIKO! IT'S ALWAYS KEIKO!

Don't know how, as she was on a leash, on a well kept lawn with no spear grass, and gave zero indication of an owie, but she tore some scar tissue on her back left paw. We've only made one lousy payment on her surgery bill and she gives her Dad another bill for Father's Day? Due to debt and now the outrageous gas prices, our cash flow is zero these days. I can't reach Larry on phone to see if he had enough cash for bandages until vet opens in the morning. Can't reach him. He and his Dad are busy babbling with out-of-province relatives. I give-up, and go to grab my keys - the plan is to get hubby, go home and look for something to bandange toes. But I had asked Dad to get something out of the car earlier and he still has the keys. Now, guess where he disappeared to while I was trying to make a phone call? The can of course, complete with my keys in his pocket! :blink:

As Keiko's foot was bleeding quite profusely now, I was afraid it was something serious and am anxious to leave. Then of course there's trying to convince Mom and Dad that I haven't left them somewhere and they are in the can with Dad, in his damned jeans! I got tired of shouting through the door and sent Mom hobbling in on her crutches to get them. (She's disabled.) Finally got them, grabbed husband, went home and found a roll of gauze. Taped her up and this morning we went back to the vet. Turns out the actual hole was tiny, it just hit a tiny vein. He closed with some kind of chemical stick and properly bandaged her foot. Which, by the way, stayed on for whole three hours and only because she was sleeping.

Okay, they were nice and gave us a reduced visit rate and put it on our tab, but now it's back up to almost $1100! She ALWAYS does this. Spends money months before we've earned it. Bloody dog has gold running through her veins. Grrrr......
:uhno: :uhno:

Oh, and did I mention that some turn on my "support site" put me in tears because I was offended by something he wrote and had the nerve to say it. Am quitting the site now. Most folks there seem to be great but it only takes on to ruin the party. I am NOT having a good day!




Stormy
17-06-2008, 02:42 PM
Oh dear.....thank goodness you have a considerate vet who will let you pay it off as many over here do not. :(

I hope your day turns around soon :)

lucyloo
17-06-2008, 02:57 PM
My Labrador was exactly the same NC, we spent soooo much money on him. Hope it all goes up hill from now on. :hug:

jillybeanz
17-06-2008, 03:26 PM
That completely sucks, NC. Times two!

Why let a dunderhead ruin your support site? Can you either set him straight, or ignore all his posts? Seems a pity to lose something you have enjoyed.

Glad it's nothing serious with Golden Veins. Our youngest daughter has a lovely cat (a Birman)we often cal 2K - because she's cost us more than that in vet bills! LOL She was bitten by a dugite (venomous snake) one January and we just got her to the vet's in time. Then strike a light if she doesn't go and do it again in April. Another wretched dugite (at night which is unusual). And amazingly she came through both encounters with no side effects.

Chin up! We're sending you good vibes :D

Barbara
17-06-2008, 06:13 PM
I'm sure Keiko didn't mean it :(

You are lucky your vet lets you pay it off. Like Stormy said, a lot of them won't let you do that. We had a beautiful big dog years ago that cost us a lot of money in vet bills but he got really sick :(. We even had to take him to a skin specialist at one stage. He was worth all his weight in gold though :) I miss him very much.

I hope Keiko gets better soon and its all smooth sailing from here :fx: :)

miss kiki
17-06-2008, 10:26 PM
you have a great vet! :yes: i hope keiko doesn't get into any more trouble!

Mad Old Cow
17-06-2008, 10:33 PM
Keiko loves you for all that you are doing for her

Night Crawler
18-06-2008, 09:23 AM
That completely sucks, NC. Times two!

Why let a dunderhead ruin your support site? Can you either set him straight, or ignore all his posts? Seems a pity to lose something you have enjoyed.

Glad it's nothing serious with Golden Veins. Our youngest daughter has a lovely cat (a Birman)we often cal 2K - because she's cost us more than that in vet bills! LOL She was bitten by a dugite (venomous snake) one January and we just got her to the vet's in time. Then strike a light if she doesn't go and do it again in April. Another wretched dugite (at night which is unusual). And amazingly she came through both encounters with no side effects.

Chin up! We're sending you good vibes :D

Thanks everyone! I don't resent her, just get frustrated sometimes as we have sooo many money stresses. This is actually a fairly new vet and the payment thing was arranged when we signed on. We knew there would be emergency situations and knew we would not have the cash ready. I was a customer at the last one I used for 20 years and spent tens of thousands of dollars there over the years with different pets. That was also usually on the payment system, but then he retired a new owner took over. The new guy had been on staff for years and looked after all my kids at one time or another, but the front desk staff changed and the new office manager took a dislike to me, making good care difficult in a number of ways. I finally got fed up with being unable to get past her and dealing with her power tripping head games, so went looking for a new one. I'm really pleased with the new office and am very grateful to them.

As for that other forum, I had changed my mind and was just going to drop out of the group I had an issue with. Unfortunately, I logged on earlier to tell the new friends I had made that I would stay when someone in charge of the entire forum closed my account with zero warning. I typed my message, hit the submit button and found myself evicted! So much so that I now can't even browse the site as I could before signing up. I give up. Regret losing the contact information for my new friends though, and send a note using systems activation email notice asking them let me back in to get the info. I'm not sure if it will reach a live person or just the computer. All in all, I'm more offended than I was yesterday and will not stay now even if they re-instate my membership. What shocks me is that this is a massive, international forum with thousands of members worlwide, as well as a "strict" behaviour code!

Patricia
18-06-2008, 11:31 AM
NC...the whole vet roundabout is a very common story for me...if it isn't one animal here it is an other and there is no vet I know that will allow you pay off your a/c it is money up front here or out the door :(

I remember telling the girls the story a little while ago of an extremely sick stray cat that wandered into our property and we took the trouble to drive the 50mins to take it to the vet and it was so ill it had to be put to sleep, but before we could be seen they wanted to make sure that we would take care of the bill...:roll: Just leaves a really nasty taste in my mouth, I know people have to make a living..but at what cost?

Hope your run of luck changes soon NC...here once the animals settle down the kids usually take a turn...:hehe:

Night Crawler
18-06-2008, 10:52 PM
Thanks Patricia. That mind-set is pretty common here too, and my vet will only extend credit after you have proven yourself. Most won't even consider it and like our human doctors, they seem to be in the business for money only, not because they truly care.

My father's cat died screaming in agony last year because their pensions didn't come in for a few days and we had no cash to help. I called everyone vet and rescue organization in town trying to get her seen, but all I got was a bunch of patronizing sympathy comments. All I asked for was that they wait two days until Larry and I got paid. And all she needed was a doctor to confirm there was no help for her and a painless shot to end her suffering. Poor little Rosie suffered for hours before her little heart finally stopped. You could tell she was actually begging us to stop the pain.

In many respects, this was actually their own fault as the result of the poor choices they had and continue to make. After continually running to their rescue and getting ever deeper in debt, we finally put our feet down and so no more money help. (I love them dearly, and in many respects could not have asked for better parents, but still their choices contributed greatly to our current financial crisis. At one point it nearly ended my marraige too.)

Still, this does not excuse all the vetrinarian office's that I pleaded with. Including mine of 20 years, who now decided I had no credit - despite never having welched on a bill! This is why I have a new vet now...

Thanks again to you and everyone else for all their support. People still tell me I have no idea about the cost of raising children, but they really have no clue about the sacrifices I make to provide a good home, good food and good medical care to my babies. My rent alone eats up 90% of my disability benefits - which are actually quite high in the scheme of these things - all for the "priviledge" of a roof over our heads. If hubby ever loses his job, we are so screwed. Homeless in a week, guaranteed.

Sorry, didn't mean to get into "self-pity" mode again. I am just so fed-up with the ever-rising cost of everything! I'm sure everyone here can relate. Our fuel prices just went up again to $1.50 a litre!!! Got a cost of living increase a couple of months ago, and as usual, my rent went up by almost the exact amount. (I swear the property firm must be in league with my insurance firm. It happens every damn year!)