I saw photos of my BF's ex ~~ where has my self-esteem gone?

[Lollen]

Yeah, but the thing is, they would probably still be together if she hadn't ran off with his cousin. So it's not like he chose to split with her. Sucks even more that she's still in the family too. That really really bugs me, and I know it bugs him as well.

[eLL85]

He's got you now. They wouldn't still be together. People like that can't be trusted. If not for his cousin it would have been somethign else.

[sandydee]

very well said Rach
Accept yourself for who you are.....he has chosen to be with you so obviously he is happy dont stress.....I am a size 16dd I HATE it

[Lollen]

Yeah, maybe. I'm just scared some chick with a nicer rack will come along one day, and because his ex had big boobs he prefers them or something. I've gotta snap out of it though! I've got him and that should be reassurance enough, right....?

[eLL85]

very right.
Like i said Big Boobs = pain and not much fun for the wearer no matter what pammy anderson says.

[Lollen]

Lol true. I know someone getting a breast reduction actually. I don't think she needs it now that she's lost weight, but she still hates them for all the reasons you listed.

[sandydee]

snap out of it

[Nicole83]

Yeah, maybe. I'm just scared some chick with a nicer rack will come along one day, and because his ex had big boobs he prefers them or something. I've gotta snap out of it though! I've got him and that should be reassurance enough, right....?

I don't want to come across as rude but I don't know how to write this any other way.. I apologise in advance

If you are concerned that your boyfriend is going to leave you if a chick with bigger boobs comes along, he isn't worth it. If he has given you that impression, tell him more than a handful is a waste!!

Has he ever mentioned anything about yours in a negative way? If he hasn't, don't worry. But nearly all guys are going to look at other women, especially if they are adequate in the chest area, but don't take it to heart.

As the other ladies said, he has chosen to be with you for a reason, and that includes all of you.

[Lollen]

He hasn't said anything or acted in a way that makes me think that. The complete opposite actually, he's so sweet to me. It's just seeing photos of his ex made me feel slightly inadequate in the boob department.

[sandydee]

how did you see the photos if you dont mind me asking? did he show you? or did you come across them?