I saw photos of my BF's ex ~~ where has my self-esteem gone?

[2catscan]

Couldn't you just let it drop sometime that an ex-boyfriend of yours was....large?

[Naomi]

Yeah, but the thing is, they would probably still be together if she hadn't ran off with his cousin. So it's not like he chose to split with her. Sucks even more that she's still in the family too. That really really bugs me, and I know it bugs him as well.

Um ... I'm going out on a limb here but I'm guessing that fidelity rates a bit higher with your boyfriend than your breast-size. I think it's redundant to say "they'd still be together except ..." because she DID cheat on him (with family so not classy). He has chosen you. I'm guessing even if she giftwrapped herself with a big bow and a card with his name on it, he still wouldn't want her back. Let it go and don't let it affect your self esteem or your relationship.

[Lollen]

I saw photos of her in one of his family members albums on Facebook.
It's funny you say that Naomi, coz she actually recently did do that; threw herself at him, told him she missed him and wanted him back AND she's still with his cousin!! Thank god he told her to F off.

[sandydee]

she sounds very charming ....NOT

[SocialGirl]

I don't think you got anything to worry about.... he is with you and thats what counts.... if the size of ones breasts was an issue with him, i doubt he would have chosen you - so don't sweat it.... he obviously loves you the way you are.

[Lollen]

Thanks

[GlossGirl]

There's nothing to be insecure about. just think of it this way, your boyfriend has you right now and not her. regardless how gorgeous she is. I'm pretty sure you are too!

[melindathorpe]

Ex is an ex Lollen. At the end of the day - your bf is with YOU. Smile and be positive - you are as good as you challenge yourself to be

[Shani]

Nicole pretty much beat me to it but I wanted to say that unless you think he's totally shallow then you have nothing to worry about. Only a very shallow and insensitive person goes only for looks, the size of your boobs or how appealing your face is shouldn't be an issue. If he decided he liked the look of you enough to start going out with you then it's not likely to be an issue.

I'd love to be a C cup, been an A and AA forever apart from that lovely moment 3 days after my babies were born and that didn't last.

[lacyfunny]

I've just sussed out pics of my BF's ex and she looked really gorgeous and had amazing boobs. Mine are quite a bit smaller and it's left me feeling rather inadequate. I've always loved my body and was quite happy with my boobs....until now. I've also lost a bit of weight lately, and they've gone from a D cup down to a C... but I don't even have cleavage if I put on a push-up bra. Rationally, I tell myself I am being silly, but the insecurity won't fade.
Does anyone have any advice that can give my self-esteem and self-confidence back??

Someone from my high school (which i've finished) got big implants but I don't know her so hard to say if its good for self-confidence or no.