Has my girlfriend gone mad?

[Angela]

I'm not sure where to put this thread, so i'm hoping it fits in ok here. I have a girlfreind who has been very stressed in recent years and shes taken to spirituality in a big way. I dont often go see her, but her marraige fell apart a few years ago, and shes been involved with massages aswell since. I've never had a massage, but shes recomended that I have a massage, cause I get quite depressed and anxious.
But today, we got together, and i'm not sure what to make of her. I think shes trying to "come out" to me now. She said a very odd thing that I dont think masseurs would do, and if they do, do they have a right too, or is it part of the process.
Her masseaur is female by the way...
She said "Yesterday my massage was really beautiful. I was quite anxious yesterday..more so than ever. She massaged me up the legs, back, shoulders, etc. then when i rolled over, she gently kissed me and then kissed my breasts and gave me the most warmest cuddle ever".
I'm serious, I was'nt sure what to say!!! Should i see this masseur, or has my freind turned into a nut.

[eLL85]

I don't imagine the masseur tries that on with everyone. Maybe if your friend has been going there for a while there is a genuine attraction. Why don't you ask her. Tell her you find it weird and it's definatly not normal practice unless of course there is some sort of mutual attraction between the women and if she says there is.... ask her what shes going to do about it

She is your friend. I'm sure she won't be offended.

[Frannie]

Ok Angela...... I have had many massages by strangers in the past and more to have in the future but any kissing on any part of the body is just NOT RIGHT !!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!! this is not normal and actually if she is part of a group or business she really should be reported........ that is so so wrong on so many levels but I have to ask if your friend enabled it???????? Was she asked first??????......... either way it is still wrong as a professional of that field...... !!

[Mesmereyes]

wowww.. i agree with what both elle and frannie said here. Maybe she did like it and wanted it, I also have been to lots of them ( years ago), and now the one i see does things to me like you would not believe ,, yep he is my hubby, and is fully qualified as a masseur therapist.

[old woman]

Yes, this is wrong on so many levels!!! No way should a pofessional have done thiis, even if she thought that there was a mutual attraction

Your fiend needs to eport this woman or at the very least tell her that ahat she did was against all ethical codes of practice .What if she does this to someone else? A young or vunerable person? How would your friend feel then?

[SocialGirl]

Oh WOW.... as far as I know and most certainly in this country (South Africa), this is NOT normal practice.... I would have jumped out of my skin and got the hang out of there. Perhaps with all due respect this was "consenting".... I would speak openly with her in this regard.

[Cherie]

Should i see this masseur,

It is totally up to you.

[Heather]

Definitely not normal practice.....your friend has been taken advantage of by a person who should have been more professional.

[Perfectly Precious]

Maybe go see her and see if she tries anything on you.....if she doesn't maybe your friend was asking to explore another side of her sexuality

[Melinda]

why would you want to see her (the massur)
it is sexual assualt....needs to be reported to the police by your friend...
would she be making the story up by any chance.....