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    Re: 'family'

    .....I'm assuming you weren't Grubby?????
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    Re: 'family'

    I was with my ex-husband for 13yrs and even though we had our pets and felt a part of each other families, I never felt a part of 'my own' family until I was pregnant with Sam.


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    Re: 'family'

    Sometimes you can be "in" a family yet not feel a part of it.
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    Re: 'family'

    I agree with Cherie as well and that sums it up just nicely........

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    Re: 'family'

    Quote Originally Posted by Cherie View Post
    My version is when you have children, you are creating your own family..up until then you are a part of your own family or your DH's family. Without children you are classed as a couple.
    this is how I see it too, hubby & I became our own 'family' when our first child arrived

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    HA...

    I think BF and I are part of a family but you ask any of his work college's when it is time to pick who is on call over christmas and they turn to him and say "We all decided you are on call (again for the 4th F*^KING year running) because You Don't Have Family.'

    I'm sorry, what is his mum, his dad, his brother, me, his grandfather, my parents, my sisters. They are family. We don't have to breed to have people who love us.

    Makes me mad.

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    I think the Christmas rostering sucks.......to be fair to all, maybe names should be drawn out of a hat.
    I am beautiful inside and out so I should love myself unconditionally.

    Weather it be or weather it not Heather complains 'cause it's far from hot
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    Grab jumper, a scarf or even a dog.
    That'll warm you up, you jolly great snob!!

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    Re: 'family'

    Nicole cops that as well because she is not married with kids

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    Re: 'family'

    Quote Originally Posted by jenr View Post
    Nicole cops that as well because she is not married with kids
    Working families, working families, working families

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    Re: 'family'

    Quote Originally Posted by Mad Old Cow View Post
    No i honestly don't think you have to have kids to be a family, & when you marry you get extra family anyway lol
    wether you like it or not
    I agree with cherie about what a social definition of a family is.
    As far as work places go I think its a cop out to say you can work because you have no family. It shouldnt matter if you have kids or are single. At my work we are not open chrissy day or good friday but are for all the other holidays. We are asked to volunteer to work the holiday then if not enough volunteers can be faound you are rostered based on how may holidays you have worked previously and when the last one was etc.
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