Really seeking advice with a girlfriend from taiwan!!!

[Cherie]

Are you in the club Angela? My sister is and says it's easy to recognise the members..(Not that there's anything wrong with that)
Honestly Angela, If you are gay it is ok. No one will discriminate against you. I know we joke here, and it is not a joking matter if you are, I know. It is just that when you say things like you did, you may get any number of different answers.
I am not the only woman here with a gay sibling. It is pretty much the norm it seems.

[Kaylene]

But isnt the neighbour in a married relationship, I read that she has a husband and child.

Yes, I know married people sometimes have gay relationships too but thats not the way I read this thread.

Perhaps I just missed the point

[Cherie]

My sis was in a relationship with a man when she met her life partner who is a woman.

[Melinda]

Perhaps I just missed the point

yes i'm confused also.....

[Angela]

I've never thought of myself as being gay, or bi infact, but I explored it in my early to mid 20's....and, yes, i'm exploring it now too. Yes, she is married, but her hubby is in taiwan and can only get 3 weeks off a year, and he was here for 3 weeks recently. He knows about us, and has no issues. Infact, hes happy that she has someone so close and comforting. We know our limits, and wont show it in front of her daughter. I am not ashamed with what i'm doing, cause I. myself am very lonely. Sorry if i've said too much.

[Melinda]

all the best with it Angela....

[redrobyn]

Hope everything works out for you Angela and you have a good trip away.

[Cherie]

All good wishes Angela, You haven't said too much. Lots of caring ladies here if you ever feel like talking about anything.
I shouldn't have been so blunt. Sorry, but it was a bit confusing at first.

[Mad Old Cow]

Angela, noone would judge you here i am sure & at least now we can understand what you meant

[Melinda]

yes no one is judgemental here....